Hello everyone. New to this, and have question. Nice to meet everyone! My wife and I were wondering if anyone has run into this problem. She really enjoys when we go out shopping, and I wear two pull-up diapers under my shorts or jeans. (Lucky me!). The problem is, no other women seem to notice, even though the bulk seems very thick to me, as I have to waddle a bit, and stand with my legs apart. We would both really love to be in a checkout line, and a woman behind us would notice the bulge, giggle, and quietly remark something like: Do you need changing yet?. Or, "are you wet, you seem to be sagging...". We don't want to create a scene, just a quite comment, and we would both really get off on it. This has failed to happen thus far. Does anyone have a suggestion? I can't seem to get up the courage to whisper to " I've just wet", in front of someone yet. Why don't women seem to notice my diapers? Are they just not used to looking for them? Any thoughts? Thanks for listening.

CHANGES: well its jsut that i dont think its fair for me to change someone and them not return the favor, and visa versa, if someone were to change me if change them

Sorry for the long delay in getting back to you. I've been away doing some work. I am in Australia so that puts me almost 18 hours ahead of you.
no problem do what you got to do. we will be here for you.

I been diaper lover since i was young, wend grow up watch my mom change diaper platic pants and feed bottle now im 53 still drink baby bottle warm milk and where depend diaper to bed love have sex in them, also im pantie lover to the soft cloths lady wear. bye now.