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What's a Sissy?

Sissy is a term used to define a man who crossdresses as a younger woman rather than the traditional crossdresser. Mostly they are into the humiliation side of being forced to dress as a woman. This separates them from traditional crossdressers, as they see themselves liberating a hidden side and see it as empowering rather than a humiliating event.

What's a LG?

An LG is a new term born somewhere within the internet and it defines a Little Girl. It can be used in different ways. Some crossdressers who aren't into the humiliation side of Sissydom prefer the term LG as they truly feel like a Little Girl ( Crossdressing and Ageplay ). Women use the term to refer to those who prefer Ageplay but don't see themselves as babies, tending to play as young girls, school girls and Daddy's Girls. These are much more common than true ABs.

Sissy - From Wikipedia
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See "Sissy (disambiguation) for other uses of the term


Sissy (derived from sister;[1] also sissy baby, sissy boy, sissy man, etc.) is a pejorative term for a boy or man who violates or does not meet the standard male gender role. Generally, sissy implies a lack of courage, strength, coordination, testosterone, male libido, and stoicism, which have traditionally been important to the male role. A man might also be considered a sissy for being interested in traditionally feminine hobbies or employment (e.g., being fond of fashion), displaying effeminate behavior (e.g. using hair products or displaying limp wrists), being unathletic, or being homosexual.[2]

Sissy is, approximately, the male converse of tomboy (a girl with masculine traits or interests), but has none of the latter's positive connotations. Even amongst gay men, behavior thought of as sissy or camp produces mixed reactions. Some men reclaim the term for themselves.

The term sissyphobia denotes a negative cultural reaction against "sissy boys" thought prevalent in 1974.[3] Sissyphobia has more recently been used in some queer studies;[4] other authors in this latter area have proposed effeminiphobia as an alternative term.[5]


Term of affection toward women

Sissy (or sis) can also be a relationship nickname formed from sister, given to girls to indicate their role in the family, especially the oldest female sibling. It can also be applied to girls as a term of affection from friends who are not family members.


In gender and queer studies

Gregory M. Herek wrote that sissyphobia arises as combination of misogyny and homophobia.[6] Communication scholar Shinsuke Eguchi (2011) stated:

The discourse of straight-acting produces and reproduces anti-femininity and homophobia(Clarkson. 2006). For example, feminine gay men are often labeled "fem," "bitchy," "pissy," "sissy," or "queen" (e.g., Christian, 2005; Clarkson, 2006; Payne,2007). They are perceived as if they perform like "women," spurring straight-acting gay men to have negative attitudes toward gay feminine men (Clarkson, 2006; Payne, 2007;Ward, 2000). This is called sissyphobia (Bergling, 2001). Kimmel (1996) supports that "masculinity has been (historically) defined as the flight from women and the repudiation of femininity" (p. 123). Thus, sissyphobia plays as the communication strategy for straight-acting gay men to justify and empower their masculinity. (p. 38).[7]
Eguchi added, "I wonder how 'sissyphobia' particularly plays into the dynamic of domestic violence processes in the straight-acting and effeminate-acting male same-sex coupling pattern." (p. 53).[7]


In sexual subcultures

In the BDSM practice of forced feminization, the male bottom undergoing cross-dressing may be called a sissy as a form of erotic humiliation, which may elicit guilt or sexual arousal, or possibly both, depending on the individual.[8]

In (paraphilic) infantilism, a sissy baby is a man who likes to play the role of a baby girl.[9]